There is a chemical in a girls’ brain is released only two different times in her life, when she has sex, and when she breast feeds her baby. This chemical emotionally connects her to another person for the rest of her life. Us guys? We only release this chemical when we bond with our children. So if you think sex is a game and go around fucking as many girls as you want, remember that you can mentally mess this girl up for the rest of her life. If you’re still friends afterwards then whatever, but she will always feel some sort of feeling for you, just because of the chemical.
It’s called Oxytocin, it’s actually released when a woman gives birth as well. But this is so true… sex is more than just a game, and this is a clear reason that explains why humans were only created to have sex with just one person. Doing it with multiple people will have a very strong negative effect on your relationship with the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I wish more kids knew about this… not that this should be your only motive not to have sex before marriage, but it is one of the most important.
Everyone should know this.
Wow, this is so wrong. Men release oxytocin when they have sex too. Don’t use incorrect pseudoscience to justify a monogamous puritanical view that humanity, not biology, created. Don’t act like somehow oxytocin causes premarital sex to be damaging to women. It isn’t and won’t “mentally mess this girl up” for life. People don’t instantly mate for life when they have sex. They don’t imprint or create an instantaneous bond with anyone because of oxytocin. I can’t believe this has so many notes. This is some patriarchal bullshit and it is patronizing as hell. Men aren’t the keepers of women’s sexuality and using fake evolutionary/biological terms doesn’t make it so.
P.S. you release oxytocin when you orgasm whether you are with another person or not. So, don’t masturbate either, you guys. You might mess up your penis for life.
(Source: shamelesslyhopelesslyfree)
